Understanding the Dying Process
- Coping with Emotions
Many complex emotions arise when you or your loved one is facing the end of life, including fear, anger, sadness, and acceptance. This is normal. Let yourself be free to go through all emotions. - Advance Directives
Discuss and have things in place. Living wills and durable powers of attorney for healthcare are necessary, to ensure that a person’s wishes are honored. - Funeral and Burial Planning
Try to remain open to ideas regarding planning a funeral or memorial service, making decisions about burial or cremation, choosing a funeral home, and discussing wishes with family members. - Legacy and Memory-Making
Here are some ideas for how individuals can leave a lasting legacy: writing letters to loved ones, creating video messages, or compiling a memoir or photo album. A caregiver could assist. Have small family gatherings, record stories, or engaging in meaningful rituals or traditions. - Digital Legacy
Managing digital assets, including social media accounts, online banking, and email, are important. Discuss this information to ensure these are handled according to the person’s wishes. - Spiritual and Religious Considerations
Accessing spiritual care and support, whether through a hospice chaplain, a local faith community, or personal spiritual practices can be very beneficial to the patient and their loved ones. - Self-Care for Caregivers
Caregivers should seek to care for themselves during this stressful time, including managing fatigue, seeking support, and recognizing signs of burnout. - Personalizing Care
Discuss with your hospice care team for how to personalize end-of-life care to reflect the individual’s personality, values, and preferences.